Proverbs 25:9

French S21 2007 (Bible Segond 21)

Défends ta cause contre ton prochain, mais ne révèle pas le secret d'un autre!

What Does This Mean?

This verse from Proverbs advises that when you have a dispute with someone, talk it out directly with them and don't spread secrets to others. It's about handling conflicts privately and responsibly.

Explained for Children

Imagine you have a problem with your friend. The Bible says you should talk to your friend about it, not your other friends. It's like keeping a secret treasure between just the two of you.

Historical Background

This verse is from the Book of Proverbs, traditionally believed to have been written by King Solomon. It was likely written around 950 BC and reflects the wisdom and social norms of ancient Israel, emphasizing the importance of private conflict resolution and discretion.

Living It Out Today

In today's world, when you have a disagreement with a coworker, don't gossip about it with others in the office. Instead, address the issue directly with your coworker to find a resolution.

Topics

• conflict resolution
• wisdom
• privacy
• integrity
• communication
• discretion

Related Verses

• Matthew 18:15
• Proverbs 17:9
• Ephesians 4:25
• Colossians 3:13
• James 1:19

Frequently Asked Questions

What does it mean to 'debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself'?

It means to discuss and resolve disagreements directly with the person involved, rather than involving others.

Why is it important not to spread secrets?

Spreading secrets can cause unnecessary harm and distrust, undermining the trust and confidentiality needed for healthy relationships.

How does this verse apply to social media?

On social media, it's important to resolve conflicts directly with the person involved and not to share private disputes publicly.

What can happen if you don't follow the advice in Proverbs 25:9?

Ignoring this advice can lead to misunderstandings, further conflict, and erosion of trust between people.