Numbers 30:12
French (BDS) 2015 (La Bible du Semeur 2015)
et si son mari, après en avoir été informé, n’y a pas fait d’objection et ne l’a pas désapprouvée, elle reste liée par ses vœux et engagements.
What Does This Mean?
This verse from Numbers describes a situation where a woman makes a vow, and her husband can choose to nullify it on the day he learns about it. If he does, the vow is not binding, and God will forgive her for not fulfilling it.
Explained for Children
Imagine you promised to clean your room, but your mom says you don't have to. Numbers 30:12 is like that but for grown-up promises. If a woman makes a promise and her husband says no, then it's like the promise was never made, and God understands.
Historical Background
Numbers 30:12 was part of the Book of Numbers, written by Moses around 1400 BC. It was given to the Israelites as part of their legal and ceremonial instructions, reflecting the patriarchal structure of ancient Near Eastern societies.
Living It Out Today
Consider a modern scenario where a wife decides to volunteer for a significant commitment, and her husband believes it will harm their family. If he communicates this to her immediately, her commitment is nullified, reflecting the importance of communication and mutual respect in a marriage.
Topics
marriagevowsforgivenessobligationscommunicationhusband and wife roles
Related Verses
Exodus 21:7-11Ecclesiastes 5:4-5Matthew 5:33-371 Timothy 2:11-15Ephesians 5:21-33
Frequently Asked Questions
What happens if the husband does not nullify the vow on the day he hears about it?
If the husband does not nullify the vow on the day he hears about it, the vow remains binding, and the woman is obligated to fulfill it.
Is this rule only applicable to women?
Yes, this specific rule in Numbers 30:12 is directed towards women, reflecting the patriarchal context of the time. However, principles of mutual respect and communication in marriage are universal.
How does this verse relate to forgiveness?
The verse highlights that if a vow is nullified by the husband, the woman is not held accountable for it, and God forgives her for not fulfilling it, emphasizing the role of forgiveness in God's relationship with humans.
Does this apply to all types of vows?
Yes, the verse speaks of vows in general, covering any promises or commitments made by the woman that affect her life and responsibilities.