2 Samuel 13:5
French Bible (BBB) Bible Bovet Bonnet (1900)
Et Jonadab lui dit: Mets-toi au lit et fais le malade, et quand ton père viendra te voir, dis-lui: Que ma sœur Thamar vienne me donner à manger, et qu'elle prépare un mets sous mes yeux, afin que je le voie, et je mangerai de sa main.
What Does This Mean?
In this verse, Jonadab gives Amnon advice to pretend he is sick to see his half-sister Tamar. He suggests that Amnon should ask his father to let Tamar come and prepare food for him. This sets up a plan for Amnon to be alone with Tamar.
Explained for Children
Imagine you have a friend who wants to talk to someone but can't just ask them. So your friend comes up with a plan to pretend they're sick so they can have the person they want to talk to come to their room. That's what Jonadab is doing here, but it's not a nice plan.
Historical Background
This verse is from the second book of Samuel, written by various authors, likely including Nathan the prophet and Gad the seer, around the 9th century BCE. It was written for the Israelites to document the history of their kings and the consequences of their actions.
Living It Out Today
In today's world, we can see this as a cautionary tale about the dangers of manipulation and the importance of clear communication. Instead of using deceit, we should address our desires and needs honestly and respectfully.
Topics
deceptionfamily dynamicsmoralityconsequencescommunicationintegrity
Related Verses
Genesis 39:7-121 Samuel 1:4-5Proverbs 6:16-19Matthew 5:27-28Romans 13:13-14
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the main idea of 2 Samuel 13:5?
The main idea is Jonadab's advice to Amnon to use deceit to get Tamar to come and prepare food for him, potentially leading to a private meeting.
How does this verse relate to issues of morality?
This verse highlights the moral complexity of using deceit for personal gain, which is generally viewed as unethical and harmful in many cultural contexts.
What can we learn about family relationships from this verse?
We can learn about the potential for manipulation and deceit within families, and the importance of open and honest communication to maintain healthy relationships.
How does this verse connect to broader themes in the Bible?
This verse connects to themes of deceit and its consequences, reflecting on how actions based on dishonesty can lead to further complications and moral dilemmas.