Judges 21:22
Cebuano RCPV 1999 (Ang Bag-ong Maayong Balita Biblia)
Kon moreklamo kanamo ang ilang amahan o mga igsoong lalaki, amo silang ingnon, ‘Tugoti lang sila sa pagpangasawa sa inyong mga anak kay wala man nila kuhaa ang inyong mga anak pinaagi sa gubat ug wala usab ninyo ipaasawa sila sa inyong kaugalingong kabubut-on busa wala kamo makalapas sa inyong gisaad.’”
What Does This Mean?
This verse is about a promise made to handle complaints from fathers or brothers of potential brides. The speakers are promising to be lenient and to explain why they did not save a wife for each man during the war, so that those who did not provide a bride would not feel guilty.
Explained for Children
Imagine you and your friends promised to share your toys, but forgot to save one for each friend. Now, if the parents of your friends ask why, you promise to say, 'Please be nice to our friends because we forgot to save a toy for each one.' This verse is like that, but with grown-ups and brides.
Historical Background
Judges was written by various authors around 1050-1000 BCE, during the time of the Judges in ancient Israel. The audience was the Israelites, and it reflects the tribal conflicts and moral challenges of that era.
Living It Out Today
In modern times, this verse teaches us about the importance of communication and transparency in relationships. If you make a promise and can't keep it, be honest and explain why to prevent misunderstandings and guilt.
Topics
marriagecommitmentcommunicationforgivenessresponsibilityconflict resolution
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why is forgiveness important in this verse?
Forgiveness is important because it allows those who didn't fulfill their promise to be relieved of guilt and continue in good standing with the community.
How does this verse relate to communication?
The verse highlights the need for clear communication to prevent misunderstandings and to resolve conflicts amicably.
What is the historical significance of this verse?
This verse gives insight into the social and legal norms regarding marriage and the responsibilities of tribes during the period of the Judges in ancient Israel.
How can this verse be used in modern relationship counseling?
This verse can be used to discuss the importance of honesty and clear communication in relationships to prevent and resolve conflicts.