Colossians 3:21

Arabic 2016 (الكِتاب المُقَدَّس: التَّرْجَمَةُ العَرَبِيَّةُ المُبَسَّطَةُ)

أيُّهَا الآبَاءُ وَالأُمَّهَاتُ، لَا تُغِيظُوا أبْنَاءَكُمْ لِئَلَّا يُحبَطُوا.

What Does This Mean?

This verse tells fathers not to upset their children or make them feel discouraged. It emphasizes the importance of treating children with kindness and understanding.

Explained for Children

Imagine you're playing a game, and your dad keeps being too rough and making you lose. You might start feeling sad and think you can't play anymore. This verse says dads should be careful not to make their kids feel this way about anything in life.

Historical Background

The book of Colossians was written by the Apostle Paul around AD 60-62. He wrote it to a church community located in modern-day Turkey, addressing various issues including how family members should treat each other.

Living It Out Today

In today's world, this could mean that instead of harshly criticizing your child for not doing well on a school test, you sit down with them and help them understand the material better, encouraging their efforts rather than just focusing on grades.

Topics

• parenting
• family relationships
• discouragement
• encouragement
• child-rearing

Related Verses

• Ephesians 6:4
• Deuteronomy 21:18-21
• Proverbs 29:17
• Luke 15:11-32
• Galatians 6:10

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is discouragement bad for a child's development?

Discouragement can make children feel unvalued or inadequate, which can affect their self-esteem and motivation to try new things.

What does the Bible say about disciplining children?

The Bible advises a balance between discipline and encouragement. It's important to correct wrong behavior in love without making the child feel undervalued.

How can I ensure my parenting style is not discouraging?

By focusing on positive reinforcement, setting clear expectations with love, and listening to your children’s needs and feelings.

What if a child misbehaves frequently? How should I respond?

Responding with patience and understanding helps. Address the behavior while reinforcing that you believe in their ability to do better next time.