1 Corinthians 7:12

Afrikaans DB 2006 (Die Boodskap)

[12-14] Oor wat verwag word van ’n Christen wat met ’n nie-Christen getroud is, het die Here nie destyds met ons gepraat toe Hy op aarde was nie. Laat ek vir julle sê wat ek dink: as die nie-Christen gewillig is om met die Christen getroud te bly, moet hulle nie skei nie. As ’n nie-Christen met ’n Christen getroud is, beteken dit nie dat die Here daardie huisgesin verwerp nie. Dit sou mos beteken dat Hy die kinders van die huisgesin ook verwerp. Dit doen die Here nie. Die Here aanvaar daardie huisgesin en daardie kinders behoort aan Hom.

What Does This Mean?

This verse talks about what to do if a believer is married to someone who doesn't believe in God, but they are still happy together. Paul is speaking here, not quoting Jesus directly, and he says that the believer should stay with their spouse.

Explained for Children

Imagine you have a best friend who likes different games than you. If your friend wants to play together, it's good to keep playing together even if they don't like all of your games.

Historical Background

The letter was written by Paul around 53-54 AD to the Christians in Corinth, addressing various issues including marriage and relationships within a community that mixed pagan beliefs with Christian faith.

Living It Out Today

If you are married to someone who isn't a believer but wants to stay together, this verse suggests staying committed to each other. It can apply to modern situations where spouses have different religious backgrounds or beliefs.

Topics

• marriage
• faithfulness
• believers and non-believers
• divorce
• relationships
• commitment

Related Verses

• Genesis 2:24
• Malachi 2:16
• Matthew 5:32
• Ephesians 5:22-23
• Colossians 3:18

Frequently Asked Questions

Does this verse apply only to men?

No, the principles here can be applied by both men and women. The gender-specific language reflects the historical context but doesn't limit its application.

What if the unbelieving spouse is unhappy with the relationship?

If the unbelieving partner wants to leave, then it's different; you don't have to force a situation where both aren't happy. The verse specifically talks about when both are willing to stay together.

How can staying in such a marriage be beneficial?

Staying together might provide opportunities for the non-believer to see the Christian life modeled, potentially leading them to faith over time.

What if my spouse's lack of belief affects our children?

It can be challenging. Focus on raising your children in a way that exposes them to God's love and teachings while being understanding towards the non-believing parent’s perspective.