Genesis 34:12

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Dugangi ninyo pagpangayo ug daghang bugay ug mga gasa, ug ako magahatag sumala sa inyong igabungat kanako; apan ihatag ninyo kanako ang dalaga nga akong pangasaw-onon.

What Does This Mean?

In Genesis 34:12, Shechem, who is in love with Dinah, tells her family that he is willing to give anything they ask for as a dowry, but he just wants to marry Dinah. This shows his earnest desire to marry her despite any demands her family might make.

Explained for Children

Imagine if your friend really wanted to marry your sister. He would say, 'I'll do anything you want, just let me marry her!' That's what Shechem is saying to Dinah's family. He really, really wants to marry Dinah and is willing to do anything to make that happen.

Historical Background

This verse comes from the book of Genesis, written by Moses around 1446-1406 B.C. It reflects the ancient Near Eastern culture where dowries and gifts were common practices in marriage arrangements. The text is part of a narrative detailing the interactions between Jacob's family and the Hivites.

Living It Out Today

In modern times, this verse can be applied to situations where someone is willing to do whatever it takes to achieve a goal, like a man proposing to his girlfriend and being ready to meet her family's demands. It highlights the importance of commitment and readiness to make sacrifices for love.

Topics

• marriage
• commitment
• dowry
• love
• ancient customs
• family

Related Verses

• Genesis 29:27
• Exodus 22:16-17
• Matthew 19:7-9
• 1 Corinthians 7:39
• Ephesians 5:25-33

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a dowry?

A dowry is a sum of money, goods, or estate that the bride brings to the marriage, traditionally given by her family to the groom or his family.

Why is Shechem offering a dowry?

Shechem is offering a dowry because it was a common custom in ancient times to provide something valuable to the bride's family as a sign of commitment and respect.

What is the significance of Shechem's offer?

Shechem's offer shows his deep desire to marry Dinah and his willingness to meet any demands her family might have, reflecting his earnestness and commitment.

How does this verse relate to modern marriage practices?

While dowries are not common in modern Western cultures, the principle of making significant sacrifices and commitments in marriage is still relevant today.