Exodus 22:17
Arabic Bible Life (Targamet El Hayah) (LA)
وإن أبى والدها قطعيا أن يزوجها منه، يتحتم عليه أيضا أن يدفع له مهر العذارى.
What Does This Mean?
This verse talks about a situation where a man desires to marry a woman, but her father refuses. The man must then pay the equivalent of what a virgin's dowry would be. The message is about respecting a father's decision and the value of a dowry in marriage.
Explained for Children
Imagine you really want a toy, but your friend's mom says no. Even though you don't get the toy, you still have to give your friend the money you wanted to spend on it. It's like that with this verse, but about marriage instead of toys.
Historical Background
Exodus 22:17 was written by Moses around 1446 BC, as part of the laws for the Israelites. This verse reflects the cultural norms of the time, including the importance of a father's consent and the practice of dowries in marriage.
Living It Out Today
In modern times, this could apply to a situation where a couple wants to get married but one partner's family disapproves. The couple might still need to honor the family's wishes and possibly provide compensation or make arrangements for other commitments.
Topics
marriagedowryfamily decisionsrespectlegal obligationsvalue
Related Verses
Genesis 34:12Deuteronomy 22:28-29Matthew 19:7-91 Corinthians 7:36-38Ephesians 5:25-28
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the significance of a dowry in the Bible?
In the Bible, a dowry represents the financial commitment a groom makes to the bride's family. It reflects the value and importance of the bride within the marriage arrangement.
How does this verse reflect the cultural norms of its time?
This verse highlights the centrality of the father's role in marriage decisions and the financial aspects of marriage, both of which were significant cultural norms in ancient Israel.
Is there a modern equivalent to paying a dowry?
In some cultures, a form of dowry or bride price still exists. In others, the concept is replaced by engagement rings or other gifts, reflecting the value placed on the marriage.
What does this verse teach us about respecting family decisions?
This verse teaches the importance of respecting a family's decision, especially a father's, and the need to honor commitments even when outcomes are not what one desires.