Matthew 5:28

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What Does This Mean?

In Matthew 5:28, Jesus teaches that just thinking about someone in a lustful way is the same as committing adultery with them in your heart. He warns against even this kind of thought.

Explained for Children

Imagine if every time you looked at a cookie and really wanted to eat it, it was like you already ate the whole jar. Jesus says that just looking at someone with bad thoughts is like doing something very wrong in your mind.

Historical Background

This verse comes from the Gospel of Matthew, written around 80-90 AD. It's part of Jesus' Sermon on the Mount to his followers and the crowds, teaching them about God’s standards for their behavior. In Jewish culture of that time, adultery was a serious sin.

Living It Out Today

Consider a scenario where someone feels tempted by images on social media or TV that make them think lustful thoughts. This verse reminds us to guard our hearts from such distractions and seek purity in thought as well as action.

Topics

• adultery
• lust
• purity
• thought life
• sexual ethics
• Jesus' teachings

Related Verses

• Exodus 20:14
• Mark 7:21-23
• Romans 7:7-8
• James 1:14-15
• Hebrews 13:4

Frequently Asked Questions

Is thinking about someone wrong?

Thinking itself is not inherently wrong, but Jesus emphasizes that allowing lustful thoughts to take root can lead to sin. It’s important to guard our hearts and minds against such thoughts.

How does this verse affect relationships?

This verse encourages individuals to maintain purity in their thoughts about others, which helps build healthier, more respectful relationships based on mutual respect and integrity.

Can we control our thoughts?

While it can be challenging, the Bible teaches that we have some ability to control our thoughts. Regularly filling our minds with good things and seeking God's help through prayer can aid in this effort.

What if someone has already had these thoughts?

The message of Matthew 5:28 is about moving forward. If one recognizes the wrongness of such thoughts, they should seek forgiveness from God and make a commitment to purity in thought and action.